Wednesday, March 25, 2015

03-25-15 Sponging It Up

Mentor Tips - Tai Lopez Videos (10mins)

Enchiridion - Epictetus (book) (20mins)
- You must be one man, either good or bad. You must either cultivate your own ruling faculty, or external things; you must either exercise your skill on internal things or on external things; that is you must either maintain the position of a philosopher or that of a common person.

Write out Goals

Meditation (20mins)

Tangentially Speaking - Chris Ryan (podcast)
- Episode: http://traffic.libsyn.com/tangent/Chris_Jaymes2.mp3
- Filmmaker, writer, musician, Hollywood native... Chris Jaymes has a lot going on. We talk about his latest project, which is about the healing power of dolphins.
- intro: save money buy a van deck it out to live in and travel around doing anything and everything till you find what you love and pursue it deeper.
- Aquatic Ape (book)
- Swimming with dolphins
- if you have an idea build value around the idea

How to Learn Faster - Tai Lopez (video) (11mins)
- mix and match books in one reading session
- see how things link up
- train yourself to gulp knowledge

Walk 20mins

Workout (50mins)

Money: Master the Game - Tony Robbins (audiobook) (50mins)
- Jack Bogle (vanguard)
- Warren Buffett
- Paul

Tattoo Video - Tony Stevens (30mins)
- Black and Gray Shading

Flow - Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (book) (37mins)
- control over consciousness
- "Optimal experience depends on the ability to control what happens in consciousness moment by moment, each person has to achieve it on the basis of his own individual efforts and creativity."
- How consciousness works, and how it is controlled (Chpt 2)
- Order in consciousness (Chpt 3)
- Conditions of the flow experience (Chpt 4)
- Physical and sensory skills (Chpt 5)
- Symbolic skills (Chpt 6)
- Transform jobs into flow-producing activities (Chpt 7)
- Relations with parents, spouses, children, and friends more enjoyable (Chpt 8)
- Ways in which people manage to enjoy life despite adversity (Chpt 9)
- Join all experience into a meaningful pattern (Chpt 10)
- "It is not just a matter of losing a few extra pounds. It is a matter of losing the chance to have a life worth living."
- "the primary reason it is so difficult to achieve happiness centers on the fact that, contrary to the myths mankind has developed to treasure itself, the universe was not created to answer our needs. Frustration is deeply woven into the fabric of life. And whenever some of our needs are temporarily met, we immediately start wishing for more. This chronic dissatisfaction is the second obstacle that stands in the way of contentment."
- "To deal with these obstacles, every culture develops with time protective devices --- religious, philosophies, arts, and comforts ---- that help shield us from chaos. They help us believe that we are in control of what is happening and give reasons for being satisfied with our lot." It eventually wears out and no longer provides the spiritual sustenance it once did.
- "natural processes do not take human desires into account. They are deaf and blind to our needs, and thus they are random in contrast with the order we attempt to establish through our goals."
- "The universe is not hostile, nor yet is it friendly. It is simply indifferent." (J. H. Holmes)
- "No great improvements in the lot of mankind are possible, until a great change takes place in the fundamental constitution of their modes of thought." (J. S. Mill)
- How we feel about ourselves, the joy we get from living, ultimately depend directly on how the mind filters and interprets everyday experiences.
- we must learn to achieve mastery over consciousness itself

Attached - (book)
- Three major categories, Secure, Anxious, Avoidant
-50% secure, 20% anxious, 20% avoidant, 3-5% anxious/avoidant
- we are programmed to act in a predetermined manner
- its not impossible for someone to change his or her attachment style --- on average, one in four people do so over a four year period -- most people are unaware of the issue
- John Bowlby

When I Stop Talking, You'll Know I'm Dead - Jerry Weintraub (book) (40mins)

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